Instead of using a relaxer to get my hair soft what can i use?

use a deep conditioner in the shower.. they work wondersInstead of using a relaxer to get my hair soft what can i use?
shampoo and use a deep conditioner to make ur hair more manageable and softer, you can use a ceramic hot iron but make sure you use a hair heat protection product and at night make sure you keep ur hair wrapped so your hair dont break off or lose its oil on the rough cotton materials of your bed (like your pillow)Instead of using a relaxer to get my hair soft what can i use?
If you blow dry your hair before you blow dry it you can put in CHI silk infusion spray found at your local drug store ($16). It has to be heat activated. It makes your hair silk , smooth, and soft!!